- Keep your promises.
- Break me out of my introverted shell. Inspire me to step out of my comfort zone.
- Know when to be patient with me and give me space when I need it.
- Know when to be blunt and push me harder. Remind me you're pushing me harder because you want what is best for me.
- Understand that I have an emotional breaking point where my ugly side comes out. And don't judge me for my tendency to hold grudges against people that hurt me to that breaking point.
- Stick up for me and/or give me the benefit of the doubt when you hear shit about me, and then ask for my side of the story.
- If you hurt me, you apologize through actions, not just words (or text message).
- Inspire me to be a better person, especially when I'm struggling.
- Random acts of kindness. Surprise me with sincerity. Show me that our relationship isn't dependent on me initiating everything.
- Be straight up with me. No secrets. No lies. Understand that I might get upset at first, but in the long run it will strengthen my trust and respect in you.